"We are not ourselves
When Nature, being oppressed,
Command the mind
To suffer with the body".
William Shakespeare
King Lear
Born in 1941, Eileen Tumulty is raised by her Irish immigrant parents in Woodside, Queens, in an apartment where the mood swings between heartbreak and hilarity, depending on whether guests are over and how much alcohol has been consumed.
When Eileen meets Ed Leary, a scientist whose bearing is nothing like those of the men she grew up with, she thinks she’s found the perfect partner to deliver her to the cosmopolitan world she longs to inhabit. They marry, and Eileen quickly discovers Ed doesn’t aspire to the same, ever bigger, stakes in the American Dream.
Eileen encourages her husband to want more: a better job, better friends, a better house, but as years pass it becomes clear that his growing reluctance is part of a deeper psychological shift. An inescapable darkness enters their lives, and Eileen and Ed and their son Connell try desperately to hold together a semblance of the reality they have known, and to preserve, against long odds, an idea they have cherished of the future.
Through the Learys, novelist Matthew Thomas charts the story of the American Century, particularly the promise of domestic bliss and economic prosperity that captured hearts and minds after WWII. The result is a riveting and affecting work of art; one that reminds us that life is more than a tally of victories and defeats, that we live to love and be loved, and that we should tell each other so before the moment slips away.
When Eileen meets Ed Leary, a scientist whose bearing is nothing like those of the men she grew up with, she thinks she’s found the perfect partner to deliver her to the cosmopolitan world she longs to inhabit. They marry, and Eileen quickly discovers Ed doesn’t aspire to the same, ever bigger, stakes in the American Dream.
Eileen encourages her husband to want more: a better job, better friends, a better house, but as years pass it becomes clear that his growing reluctance is part of a deeper psychological shift. An inescapable darkness enters their lives, and Eileen and Ed and their son Connell try desperately to hold together a semblance of the reality they have known, and to preserve, against long odds, an idea they have cherished of the future.
Through the Learys, novelist Matthew Thomas charts the story of the American Century, particularly the promise of domestic bliss and economic prosperity that captured hearts and minds after WWII. The result is a riveting and affecting work of art; one that reminds us that life is more than a tally of victories and defeats, that we live to love and be loved, and that we should tell each other so before the moment slips away.
From Goodreads
Tomorrow night my book group will discuss Matthew Thomas's debut novel, We Are Not Ourselves. This book was hard for me to read. It was not the 600+ pages. I actually read it over a weekend. The subject was difficult. Though it is not mentioned in the above review, other reviews make no secret this is a book about a family's life detoured by Alzheimer's.
Thomas builds his story and develops his characters gradually seeming to drag at times. Once the reader is invested (a couple hundred pages in), the necessity of the history is realized. The author gives us a remarkable and accurate portrait of the onset and progression of Alzheimer's/Dementia, and the effect on the family. So much of this story
hit very close to my heart.
Despite the difficult subject, I loved this book; I am genuinely looking forward to talking about it with my book group. I strongly recommend We Are Not Ourselves.
Happy Reading!
I loved this book, too!! It was a favorite a couple of years ago. I'd be curious to hear how your book club likes it. Wonder if he's working on another novel...
ReplyDeleteYou are brave Bonnie, to read about such a heart wrenching topic/disease. I too wonder how your group will feel about the book. Your enthusiasm for reading inspires me!!
ReplyDeleteThat sounds like a great book to discuss in a group. Alzheimer's is a disease that we all fear and right now there is little that can be done for those who suffer and for those who care. I just read recently that a group in Britain ha made a breakthrough and a treatment may be here in the near future. Sooner would be better
ReplyDeleteDear Bonnie - this looks like it would be a hard book to read; especially if one has had a loved one with the disease. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Hope you enjoy your book club night out. That sounds like such fun. Take care and have a great week-end.
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